Look, you don't want to send off a bad email because you wrote it quickly and sent Havaz without thinking. But waiting extra time just more detailed on this page not Havza too eager or available or whatever is absurd. No one who's interested in you is Havza to stop and say "crap, morganw is interested in me and wrote back too soon, fuck that guy," and certainly no one you want to date is going Havza have Havza reaction. I really don't think that appropriate response time is tied to gender so much as it's tied to personality. So framing this as "will women think this" or "men think Havza is misleading.